Pew Research Center
Dating at 50 and up (2023)
The backbone of our numbers on how people over 50 actually experience online dating.
- 57% / 38%of women vs men over 50 describe online dating as a negative experience (2023)
- ~50%of users over 50 are looking for a long-term partner (2023)
- #1Match is the most used platform in the 50+ age group (2023)
Cited across our getting-started, women’s and men’s guides.
Bowling Green State Univ. — NCFMR
Singlehood among adults in their 50s (2022)
The population data behind our standing answer to «is there anyone even out there?». Yes — nearly three in ten people in their 50s, and the share climbs with every decade after 60.
- 29%of adults aged 50–59 are single — neither married nor cohabiting (NCFMR analysis of 2022 Census CPS data)
- 40%of all U.S. adults 50+ were unmarried in 2020, up from 34% a century earlier (NCFMR, Census/ACS)
Cited on the homepage, hubs, and most guides.
The Senior List
Older Singles Dating Study (2024)
A late-2024 survey of older singles — the research twin of what we see in real life.
- 2024selectivity tracks with satisfaction — mature daters who know what they want report better experiences
Cited in our complete guide, women’s guide, and age-gap articles.
Lee & McKinnish, Journal of Population Economics
The Marital Satisfaction of Differently-Aged Couples (2018)
Thirteen years of Australian household panel data — the best evidence we found on whether an age gap actually affects how a couple fares over time.
- 6–10 yrsthe higher initial satisfaction of differently-aged couples is erased within six to ten years of marriage
- —differently-aged couples are also less resilient to negative economic shocks
Cited in our age-gap articles, where it replaced a softer claim we could not support.
David M. Buss, Behavioral and Brain Sciences
Sex Differences in Human Mate Preferences, 37 Cultures (1989)
The canonical cross-cultural study of stated age preferences — 37 samples, 33 countries, 10,047 people. We pair it with Eastwick & Finkel (2008), which found stated ideals fail to predict real attraction after meeting someone.
- 37samples across 33 countries showing men state a preference for younger partners, women for older
Cited in our age-gap articles on stated versus revealed preference.
U.S. Federal Trade Commission
Protecting Older Consumers 2024–2025
The FTC’s annual report to Congress on fraud against older adults. Note what it does not contain: neither the FTC nor the FBI breaks romance-scam victims out by gender, so we do not claim scammers target women specifically.
- 60+older adults are far more likely than younger adults to report losing money to a romance scam
Cited in our online dating safety guidance.